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Valerie Monteiro

Therapist · Australia

Valerie Monteiro, ACA

Calm, practical help for worrying thoughts

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  • Thoughts and habits focus
  • Relationship and intimacy work
  • Trauma-informed approach

About Valerie

Valerie Monteiro is an ACA counsellor with 21 years of clinical experience. She combines practical techniques and genuine listening to help people who feel stuck by stress, anxiety, grief or relationship pain. Valerie writes plainly and works to make sessions useful from the first meeting.

Her style is warm and direct. She helps people sort thoughts and everyday habits that keep problems active. Valerie uses a mix of talking, behaviour-focused steps and emotion work so clients can try new ways of coping between sessions.

Valerie has worked with people managing trauma, depression and complex loss. She also supports those facing career pressure, compassion fatigue and ongoing health challenges such as chronic pain. Her work covers intimacy-related issues, communication problems and family-of-origin concerns too.

In sessions she draws on approaches including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Emotionally-Focused Therapy and EMDR. These tools are used to help people change unhelpful patterns, manage strong emotions and rebuild connection where it has broken down.

Valerie offers therapy in English and Hindi and conducts practice from Australia. She asks people to choose the Start Therapy button, complete a brief matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability. The subscription used for sessions can be cancelled at any time.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Family conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBlended family issuesCancerChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodHypnotherapyImago Relationship TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

21+ years

Credentials

ACA · Australia

Languages

English, Hindi

How Valerie’s approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and choose values-based actions instead. It’s useful for anxiety, avoidance and life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on spotting thinking patterns and testing new behaviours to reduce distress and improve sleep, mood or daily functioning. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) centres on emotions and attachment-style patterns to improve communication and rebuild connection in close relationships.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Valerie will discuss options with clients and choose methods together based on the person’s needs, goals and preferences. The therapist works collaboratively, monitoring what helps and adjusting the plan as needed.

Confirm current session options before booking, as formats are not specified here. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy around work, family and medical appointments. They also allow shorter check-ins when needed, or sessions that do not require being on camera, which can help on busy days or when bandwidth is limited. Appropriately qualified therapists aim to make therapy realistic to use in everyday life.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Valerie address?

Valerie works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and grief, as well as relationship and intimacy-related issues. She also supports people with eating or sleeping problems, ADHD-related struggles, career strain and compassion fatigue.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her style is warm and straightforward with an emphasis on practical steps. Sessions focus on changing thought patterns and everyday habits alongside emotional processing.

What is her professional background?

Valerie has 21 years of experience and has worked across a wide range of life challenges. She also has published work related to her practice.

Which credentials and location are listed?

She is listed as ACA and practises from Australia.

In which languages can sessions be held?

Sessions are offered in English and Hindi.

Can international clients work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are costs handled for sessions?

Session cost varies with location and therapist availability and uses a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with Valerie?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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