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Mary Koch

Therapist · Iowa

Mary Koch, LMHC

Compassionate LMHC focusing on thoughts and habits

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  • Thoughts and everyday habits
  • Practical coping skills
  • Nonjudging presence

About Mary

Mary Koch is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) with eight years of experience. She presents a calm, welcoming presence and invites people to talk through what feels most pressing. She aims to make sessions feel like an honest conversation where clients can notice their own thinking and choices.

Her approach blends practical strategies and reflective listening. She uses methods such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and Client-Centered therapy to help people notice patterns in thoughts and everyday habits. Mary often helps clients reframe difficult beliefs and spot small positives in daily life.

Mary has worked across a variety of settings, including outpatient programs for dual diagnosis, school settings from elementary to college, and correctional facilities. That background informs a down-to-earth style for addressing anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, and substance-related concerns. She also supports work around identity, including sexual orientation questions.

In session she aims for a nonjudging tone and encourages clients to take credit for insights they discover. She may offer simple tools to manage stress, sleep, and everyday habits that get in the way of functioning. Conversations can include practical homework and skill-building tailored to each person’s pace.

Mary currently practices in Iowa and conducts work in English. She notes weekly virtual office hours and asks prospective clients to confirm scheduling details when they begin the process.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefAnger managementBipolar disorderCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Credentials

Iowa, Florida

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and then focus on actions that match their values. It can be useful for stress, anxiety, and coping with life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and actions and offers practical exercises to shift patterns that contribute to depression, sleep problems, or anxiety. Attachment-Based Therapy centers on how early relationships shape expectations and responses, and it can help with abandonment, attachment issues, and related relationship patterns.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with each person about goals and preferences and then try methods that fit. Sessions often adjust as clients notice what helps and what doesn’t, so the plan evolves together rather than being fixed up front.

Mary notes virtual office hours in her biography, so confirm the exact session options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit regular sessions into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. Some methods translate well to conversation-based sessions and short exercises that are practical to use between meetings. Ask about scheduling details and any accommodations when you begin the matching process.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Mary commonly address?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and abuse, sleeping problems, addictions, and self-esteem issues, among other concerns.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is warm and conversational with practical tools. She uses reflective listening and helps clients reframe unhelpful thoughts and everyday habits.

What is her professional background?

She has eight years of experience and has worked in outpatient dual-diagnosis programs, schools from elementary to college, and correctional settings.

What credentials and location apply to her practice?

She is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) and practices in Iowa with licensure listed as FL LMHC and IA LMHC.

Can sessions be conducted in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English and she does not accept international clients at this time.

What session formats are available?

The original biography describes virtual office hours for online work; confirm current session options before booking to learn about specific formats and times.

How are fees and payment arranged?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the steps to begin working together?

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