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Lara Shemali

Therapist · Washington

Lara Shemali, LMHC

Compassionate support for everyday thoughts and habits

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  • Practical thought work
  • Relationship focus
  • Flexible scheduling

About Lara

Lara Shemali is a licensed mental health counselor with 29 years of experience based in Washington. She focuses on helping people manage stress, reduce anxiety, and improve relationships. She also supports people working through trauma, abuse, depression, and challenges with self-esteem and motivation.

Lara takes a straightforward, person-focused approach in sessions. She listens without judgment and helps clients notice and change everyday thoughts and habits that get in the way. Conversations are practical and aimed at small, doable shifts that make life feel more manageable.

Her background includes long-term clinical work supporting recovery from substance use and other addictions. She has experience with communication problems, commitment or attachment concerns, and issues tied to body image, chronic pain, and blended family dynamics. Lara also addresses less common presentations such as dissociation, disruptive mood dysregulation disorder, and experiences related to kink and alternative sexual cultures.

In therapy she blends techniques that help people notice patterns, try new behaviors, and build emotional awareness. She offers flexible scheduling and is willing to consider evening and weekend times when available. Clients are invited to set goals at a pace that fits their life.

Getting started involves a simple sign-up and matching process followed by scheduling. Lara emphasizes practical tools and steady progress, helping people translate insights into everyday changes in thought and habit.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSImpulsivityInfidelityJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySomatizationTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential Therapy

Experience

29+ years

Credentials

Washington

Languages

English

How Lara's Approaches Guide Online Work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on noticing thoughts and choosing actions that match your values rather than getting stuck in worry or avoidance. It can help with anxiety, depression, and life transitions by teaching small, steady steps toward what matters. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and uses practical exercises to try different responses to old habits and patterns. It works well for stress, anxiety, and low mood. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes a respectful, nonjudgmental conversation where the therapist follows the client's lead and helps them build confidence and clarity about their goals.

Finding the right mix of these approaches is part of therapy. Lara will work collaboratively to decide what to try based on the client's needs, goals, and preferences. That might mean trying ACT tools for acceptance work, using CBT exercises to shift daily habits, or leaning into client-centered conversation to strengthen self-esteem.

The profile does not list which remote session formats are offered, so confirm current options before booking. In general, online therapy can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy week, reduce travel time, and let clients use shorter check-ins when needed. It also allows continuing care if someone is relocating or managing a complicated schedule. Licensed professionals can adapt exercises and homework assignments so progress happens between sessions and during everyday life.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Lara commonly help with?

She focuses on stress, anxiety, relationship struggles, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and depression, plus related issues such as addiction recovery, attachment and commitment problems.

What is Lara's style in sessions?

Her approach is person-centered and practical. She listens without judgment and helps clients notice and change everyday thoughts and habits that interfere with their goals.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 29 years of professional work experience in mental health, including long-term clinical care and addiction recovery support.

What credentials and region does she hold?

She is a LMHC licensed in Washington and practices from that state.

Are sessions available in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English, and she does accept international clients.

What session formats are offered?

The original profile does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How does billing and cost work?

Cost varies by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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