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John Clare

Therapist · United Kingdom

John Clare, NCPS

Person-centred counsellor focusing on thoughts and habits

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  • Warm listening
  • Practical reflection
  • Values-focused

About John

John Clare is a person-centred counsellor who focuses on thoughts and everyday habits that shape how people feel. He offers a calm, creative space where people can be heard and understood. His approach is straightforward and rooted in listening rather than labels. He helps people manage anxiety, stress, depression and overwhelm. He also supports those processing grief, trauma or identity questions. Conversations often look at patterns that come from earlier life and how they show up now. John draws on three years of hands-on experience across education, social care and community services. That background influences a down-to-earth style and practical emphasis in sessions. He aims to help clients reconnect with values, motivation and clearer next steps. His work includes supporting people with relationship and intimacy concerns, parenting strain, sleep and eating difficulties, addictive behaviours and career pressures. Additional areas of focus include neurodiversity, attachment and complex life situations such as adoption and caregiving stress. In sessions he offers steady, non-judgemental listening and gentle reflection. The goal is to spot everyday thoughts and habits that keep problems cycling, and to try small, manageable changes. People meet him for short-term help with an immediate problem or for longer conversations about deeper change. John holds NCPS as a credential. He practises in the United Kingdom and works in English. To confirm the exact session formats available, people should check current booking options before scheduling.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Credentials

NCPS · United Kingdom

Languages

English

How a person-centred approach fits online therapy

Person-centred therapy focuses on being listened to and understood. In this approach the counsellor offers empathic, non-judgemental listening and mirrors back what feels most important. It helps with anxiety, low mood, identity questions and patterns that come from earlier relationships.

Sessions often look at everyday thoughts and habits that keep difficulties active. The therapist supports people to notice those patterns, try small changes and reconnect with values. That practical attention to daily thinking is useful for problems such as stress, sleep difficulties, low self-esteem and managing life transitions.

Finding the right approach is a joint process. The therapist will work with each person to decide what feels most helpful, adjusting style and focus as the work unfolds. This collaborative stance means sessions can be shaped around a person’s goals and preferences rather than a fixed method.

The biography indicates an online practice but does not specify formats like video or phone. Please confirm the exact session options when you book. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, reduce travel time and allow follow-up between meetings when needed, so it can be a practical way to keep therapy consistent alongside other commitments.

Frequently asked questions

What issues does John commonly help with?

John supports people with stress, anxiety, depression and overwhelm, as well as grief, trauma and identity concerns. He also works with relationship difficulties, parenting strain, sleep and eating problems and addiction-related issues.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

He uses a person-centred approach that emphasises deep listening and acceptance. Sessions focus on understanding thoughts and everyday habits and on helping clients find their own solutions.

What experience does he bring to sessions?

He has three years of experience working across education, social care and community settings. He also works in a Social, Emotional and Mental Health primary school, which informs his practical and relational style.

Where does he practise and what are his credentials?

He practises in the United Kingdom and holds NCPS as a credential. Sessions are conducted in English.

Can people who live outside the UK work with him?

He does not accept international clients at this time. Sessions are offered to people within the United Kingdom.

What session formats are available?

The original biography describes an online practice but does not list specific session formats. Please confirm the current session options when you book.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time. Exact fees depend on the chosen subscription and scheduling details.

How do I begin working with him?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire and then schedule according to the therapist's availability. That begins the matching and booking process.

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