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Haley Harmer

Therapist · Oklahoma

Haley Harmer, LPC

Supportive counselor focused on thoughts and habits

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  • Thoughts and everyday habits
  • Warm and empathic style
  • Practical coping skills

About Haley

Haley Harmer is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) who helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship strain, parenting challenges, and a wide range of life changes. She focuses on everyday thoughts and habits that shape how people cope. Haley writes treatment plans that fit each person's concerns and goals. She aims to create a warm, respectful space for people to be heard.

Haley draws from cognitive behavioral approaches, client-centered methods, and trauma-informed ideas when building a plan. She adjusts techniques to match what a person needs rather than using the same steps for everyone. Her style is inviting and empathic, and she emphasizes practical skills as well as emotional support.

With eleven years working in counseling, Haley has worked with many different issues such as grief, addictions, body image, ADHD, and attachment concerns. Her background includes addressing family dynamics, communication problems, and parenting stress. She describes her approach as compassionate, patient, and focused on helping people find their own strengths.

Haley encourages people to notice small changes in thought and behavior that lead to better daily functioning. She supports clients in building clearer boundaries, coping skills, and healthier routines. The goal is steady progress toward what matters most to each person.

People who reach out begin with a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions based on the therapist's availability. Haley practices in Oklahoma and holds an Oklahoma LPC credential.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationFamily problemsFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

11+ years

Credentials

Oklahoma

Languages

English

Using practical approaches for online therapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice difficult thoughts without getting stuck in them and then take actions that match their values. It is useful for anxiety, grief, and making changes that matter in day-to-day life. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on changing unhelpful thought patterns and small habits that keep problems going, and it often includes clear, practical exercises to try between sessions. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships shape current patterns and helps people build safer, more reliable ways of connecting with others.

Haley treats finding the right approach as a team effort. She will talk with each person about their goals and preferences, and then suggest methods to try. If something does not feel like a good fit, she will adjust the plan so work feels useful and manageable.

Confirm the current session options before booking since formats are not specified here. Many people find online work helps fit therapy into busy lives by cutting travel time, allowing shorter check-ins during a break, or making it easier to schedule around parenting or work. Online sessions can make it simpler to practice skills in real-life settings and to use tools like worksheets or brief exercises between meetings. Licensed professionals can guide the process so sessions focus on practical changes in thoughts and routines.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Haley help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship and family problems, grief, addictions, eating and intimacy-related issues, ADHD, and related areas like body image and caregiver stress.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her style is warm, inviting, and empathic. She focuses on listening first and then building practical steps tailored to each person's needs.

What is her clinical experience?

She has eleven years of experience working in counseling across many concerns, including trauma, parenting challenges, and communication problems.

What credential does she hold and where is she located?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with an Oklahoma LPC credential and practices in Oklahoma.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are session fees handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the steps to begin working together?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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