Therapist listings are provided by BetterHelp. We will earn a commission at no extra cost to you if you use our links to buy.

David Shirly

Therapist · Florida

David Shirly, LMHC

Thoughts and habits focused support

Continue with David

Review online therapy options on BetterHelp.

  • Practical coping tools
  • Ten years experience
  • English sessions

About David

David Shirly is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) who focuses on helping people change unhelpful thoughts and everyday habits. He works with individuals facing stress, anxiety, depression, addiction, and relationship concerns. His style is direct and practical, aimed at building simple tools people can use day to day.

He brings ten years of experience working with issues like sleep problems, anger, intimacy-related concerns, and ADHD. David also addresses attachment and abandonment worries, communication and commitment problems, and challenges tied to body image or caregiving stress. He frames work around what a person needs right now, not a one-size-fits-all plan.

In sessions he combines client-centered listening with cognitive behavioral techniques and mindfulness exercises. That means conversations focus on what matters to the client while also practicing skills to shift thoughts and habits. He may also draw on dialectical behavior strategies and emotionally focused ideas when helpful.

David aims to help people develop clearer self-understanding and more reliable coping habits. He emphasizes small, doable steps so progress feels realistic. People who want straightforward guidance for everyday struggles often find this approach useful.

He practices in Florida and holds LMHC credentials for New York and Florida. Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted. Prospective clients are encouraged to confirm current session options before booking.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesAnger managementDepression

Also works with

Trauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesSelf esteemADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Credentials

Florida, New York

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches shape online work

Client-centered work emphasizes listening and the client’s agenda first. The therapist creates space for the person to say what matters and then follows the client’s lead to set goals and next steps. Cognitive behavioral therapy focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing small behavior changes. It is often used for anxiety, depression, stress, sleep problems, and habits people want to adjust.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. The therapist collaborates with each person to choose or blend methods based on their goals and preferences. That means trying practical tools, checking what helps, and adjusting the plan together rather than assuming one method fits every situation.

Session logistics should fit everyday life. The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm the available options before booking. Online work can make it easier to schedule shorter check-ins, fit sessions into a work break, avoid travel, or reduce the time commitment around childcare and errands. Licensed professionals can guide clients in applying skills between sessions so people can practice changes in their daily routines.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does this therapist address?

He helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, relationship and intimacy-related issues, sleep problems, parenting strain, ADHD, and related topics such as abandonment, attachment, codependency, and body image.

What is his general therapeutic style?

His approach is client-centered and practical, combining listening with hands-on strategies from cognitive behavioral therapy, mindfulness, dialectical behavior therapy, and emotionally focused methods to change thoughts and everyday habits.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has ten years of experience working with a range of emotional and behavioral concerns, including mood, relationship, and addiction-related issues.

What credentials and location are listed?

He is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) with licensure noted for New York and Florida and practices in Florida.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with this therapist?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Back to all therapists

David ShirlyReview online therapy options on BetterHelp.

Continue with David