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Steven Lanman

Therapist · Virginia

Steven Lanman, LCSW-C, LCSW

Thoughts and everyday habits focus

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  • Practical habit work
  • Focus on thinking
  • Respectful listening

About Steven

Steven Lanman is a licensed clinical social worker with thirty years of experience helping people navigate stress, anxiety, depression, relationship concerns, and issues related to identity and parenting. He works with clients who face trauma and abuse, grief, addiction, eating concerns, bipolar disorder, ADHD, and other life disruptions. He aims to make the first step easier and acknowledges that reaching out takes courage.

In sessions he focuses on thoughts and everyday habits that shape how people feel and act. He creates an open, nonjudgmental space where clients can name difficult feelings and try small changes. Conversations are straightforward and practical, with attention to how thinking patterns and day-to-day routines affect mood and behavior.

His background includes licensure in Virginia as an LCSW and in Maryland as an LCSW-C, and three decades of clinical work across community and clinical settings. That experience informs a flexible approach that balances problem-solving with emotional support.

Steven helps people work through a wide range of concerns, including LGBT matters, family and communication problems, parenting strain, and caregiver stress. He also supports those dealing with abandonment, aging and geriatric issues, autism spectrum questions, and health-related stress like cancer or HIV/AIDS.

Clients can expect clear conversation about goals and practical steps to try between sessions. He encourages small habit changes and thought adjustments that fit into everyday life. Before booking, confirm current session options and scheduling details.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseParenting issues

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsGriefEating disordersBipolar disorderDepressionCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryYoung adult issues

Experience

30+ years

Credentials

Virginia, Maryland

Languages

English

Approaches that target thinking and habits

Evidence-based therapeutic techniques often focus on how thoughts and daily routines shape feelings and behavior. One common approach helps people notice unhelpful thought patterns and test alternative ways of thinking to reduce anxiety or low mood. This method is practical and often uses brief exercises to change how people interpret situations.

Another frequently used technique looks at everyday habits and routines. It helps clients identify small, doable changes in sleep, activity, and social time that can improve mood and energy. These steps are designed to fit into a person's normal day rather than require major life upheaval.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist works with each person to decide which techniques match their goals, needs, and comfort level. Treatment plans are adjusted over time based on what is working and what is not.

The biography does not specify which online session formats are offered, so please confirm current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, shorten travel time, and allow for check-ins during breaks from work or between other responsibilities. Talk with the therapist about practical preferences like session length, whether to use video or phone, and how to adapt exercises for remote sessions.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Steven help people with?

He supports people facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship problems, and issues related to identity and parenting. His work also covers trauma and abuse, addictions, grief, bipolar disorder, ADHD, and many other life challenges.

How would you describe his therapy style?

His style is direct and practical, focusing on thoughts and everyday habits that influence mood and behavior. He aims for open conversation and concrete steps clients can try between sessions.

What experience does he bring to sessions?

He brings thirty years of professional experience in clinical work and community settings. That background shapes a flexible approach to a wide range of presenting concerns.

What credentials and region apply to his practice?

He holds LCSW licensure in Virginia and LCSW-C licensure in Maryland, and practices out of Virginia.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are accepted.

What session formats are offered?

The original biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist scheduling; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

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