- Stress and anxiety
- Grief and loss
- Parenting support
About Shelia
Many clients come hoping to feel less overwhelmed. Shelia helps people name what is happening, sort through painful feelings, and find clearer next steps. Sessions aim to be calm and nonjudgmental so people feel able to speak honestly about hard topics.
Her work often addresses relationship patterns such as attachment and abandonment worries, struggles with communication, and the stress of caregiving. Shelia also supports people dealing with guilt, shame, impulsivity, obsessive thoughts, and midlife questions about purpose.
Over four decades she has met people at different life stages and life situations. Shelia emphasizes practical changes in everyday habits and thinking that can make daily life more manageable. She encourages small experiments clients can try between sessions to test what helps.
People who want clear, patient guidance for stress, mood concerns, grief, or parenting dilemmas may find this approach helpful. To start, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a session according to therapist availability.
Areas of expertise
Primary focus
Additional focus areas
Experience
40+ years
Credentials
California
Languages
English
Evidence-based approaches and working online
Many of Shelia's methods focus on changing everyday thoughts and habits to reduce distress. One common approach helps people notice unhelpful thinking patterns and practice new ways of thinking that ease anxiety and low mood. Another approach emphasizes experimenting with small behavioral changes between sessions to reduce avoidance, manage compulsive habits, and rebuild routines that improve daily functioning.Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will listen to your goals and preferences, explain possible methods in plain language, and work with you to try what fits best. Adjustments are made over time based on what helps in real life.
Confirm the therapist's current session options before booking, as formats are not specified in the biography. In general, online therapy can make sessions easier to fit into a busy day, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight. It can also let people attend from a quieter spot or avoid being on camera when that helps them focus. Ask about available formats when you schedule so sessions match your needs.
Frequently asked questions
What concerns does this therapist commonly address?
Shelia works with people on stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting issues, and depression. She also addresses related concerns such as attachment difficulties, communication problems, caregiver stress, and obsessive thoughts.
What is the therapist's general approach in sessions?
Sessions focus on creating a calm, open space to talk through thoughts and feelings. The aim is practical - identify unhelpful patterns, try small changes, and build clearer ways of handling daily challenges.
How much experience does the therapist have?
She has 40 years of professional work experience in clinical settings and private practice in California.
What credentials and location apply to this therapist?
She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, practicing in California.
Which languages are offered for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English only.
Can people outside the United States work with this therapist?
International clients are not currently accepted; sessions are provided to clients located where the therapist is licensed.
How are fees and payment handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability. Sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
What are the first steps to begin working together?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a session according to the therapist's availability.